Whenever you are unhappy, ask: “What conditions or
demands am I placing on my happiness and peace in this moment?” See how silly
that is to do to yourself (note that YOU are the one who placed the condition
or demand on the situation - no one else made that a condition in order for YOU
to be happy). Hopefully, seeing how silly it is to do this to yourself will
allow you to drop that condition or demand, which will enable you to return to
happiness - your natural state.